Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
I called Harold last night to let him know I would be coming today (Wednesday) rather than Lena. It was a very good day on several levels; 1. No mention of buying a car, 2. No mention of moving to San Antonio to live with Grant, 3. We went to Barnes Bank and paid for the Safe Deposit Box, 4. We found the Safe Deposit Keys in a file in the garage (Kathryn now has the extra key), 5. I took the savings checkbook home with me, 6. We had breakfast at Paradise Cafe instead of McDonald's. We will need to make arrangements for Harold to be picked up for Church since Gary was performing that duty. I don't think Harold has been to Church for awhile. He is in the Centerville 19th Ward. I will post a note when I can contact someone. He knows no one will be coming tomorrow.
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It seems like Harold does better with a set routine.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if a lot of his behavior happened because he was overwhelmed with everything that was happening with Gary's passing. He was dealing with the grief of losing his son. Mike was staying at his place and interrupting his routine. All the family and friends at the viewing and service he recognized but couldn't remember. He was out of his "comfort zone" and I wonder if he just couldn't deal with all the extra stimulus he was experiencing.
Since things have settled back down he seems to be back to his "normal" self.