Caring for Dad!

Today when I went to visit Harold, he was having lunch with three women and talking up a storm! He was in really good spirits! He gave me the key to his room (the room was unlocked) and I did the dishes and cleaned up while he finished eating. When he got back to the room he wanted to tell me that he wanted to move because it cost too much to live there. He had seen the entries in the checkbook and was not happy. I explained to him that he no longer paid utilities, condo fees, car expenses, gas, car or home insurance, his food budget was way down and he would be receiving almost $1,000.00 per month from the sale of his condo. I am not sure he is convinced but at least he stopped pressing the issue. Maybe we should take the checkbook register out of his checkbook and put a blank one back in!!?? He had done his own wash earlier that morning. He complained about his lack of continence with his urination but did not want to see his Urologist. He said he doesn't ever help him.